All of us at Dallas Reading and Language Services wish you and your loved ones a wonderful holiday season, Merry Christmas and a very Happy New Year!
Please know that our clinic will be closed from Monday, December 23st until Monday, January 6nd, so that our team members may spend the holidays with their families and friends.
We will be open againin our new office on the first floor on Monday, January 6, 2019. We will be available to do regularly scheduled visits as well as make-up visits beginning on that day.
If you have not rescheduled insurance approved sessions, please let us know when you would like to come in for a make-up therapy session if possible.
By Rachel Betzen, M.S., CCC/SLP Reflection written for weekly staff meeting and “rounds” Based on Kid President’s “Pep Talk”
It’s time for a pep talk. Sometimes we all need a little motivation. Sometimes we all need to rally our cheerleaders, huddle up with our team, make a game plan, lay out our moves, and just go for it. Fall brings lots of changes and is a time of transition. This change in seasons with the beautiful falling leaves brings other changes and challenges that happen internally.
Kids that struggle in school are finding out that it’s not getting any easier, and many of them feel like they are getting further behind. Kids that struggle socially have their potential peers getting busier with sports, clubs, homework, and other demands on their time. Parents that struggle to support these kids are becoming more stressed out about unfinished homework, challenging school projects, and worries over whether their child will be able to make it this year. Fall can be a stressful time for kids that struggle.
In times of great need, there will be those who step up to the challenge, to see what they are really made of and really capable of. We can’t expect these to be our children, not yet. However, I believe that it is tremendously powerful for our kids to understand that they have the potential to become that kind of person. They have the potential to become an inspiration for other kids who have the same challenges. They won’t see it yet, and they may not even believe us, but we have to help them step back and look at the big picture. They have the potential to be the one who will someday give this pep talk to others. They can be a hero, a leader, a friend.
In order for our kids to achieve this, they have to work through their challenges. Kids with speech-language delays and learning differences have more than their fair share of challenges, that is for sure. The increasing demands and expectations of schoolwork can easily overwhelm them, and they can get stuck in this feeling of overwhelm. This is when they need a pep talk. This is when they need to rally their cheerleaders and gather their team support. This is when they need to realize that this isn’t about a game or a competition, we really are all in this together, or at least we should be. We can be amazing cheerleaders and inspire our children and their parents to be on the same team and rally for the same goal. We all need a pep talk sometimes. The most powerful pep talks of all, are the ones that inspire our kids to become an inspiration themselves.
By Rachel Betzen, M.S., CCC/SLP A reflection for our weekly staff meeting and “rounds” I don’t know who ever tried to catch flies with vinegar, but there really is something to approaching life with a positive outlook. Many people struggle with putting aside the negativity from life’s frustrations or failures, so it’s not really a surprise that our children can get wrapped up in a “negative feedback loop”. Children that struggle with communication and academic skills are more likely to get overwhelmed, and this makes it even more of a challenge to stay positive.
During speech-language therapy we naturally use genuine praise, and we judge the mark of a good clinician by how well we scaffold learning for our clients and move them through a developmental hierarchy of skill development. It is important for our praise to be both genuine and specific. In this manner, we can boost self-esteem while also providing important feedback on building skills we are targeting with their goals.
As clinicians, we are in a unique position to help bolster and support a stronger attachment with our clients and their parents. We can consider as a practice how we could begin to more directly provide models for parents to praise their children in a specific and genuine manner. Previous studies investigating the effectiveness of parental praise have indicated that it is associated with several elements of positive parenting, including loving and responsive care, supportiveness, warmth, and a positive affect.
Additionally, when we consider children’s outcomes, there is evidence that parental praise influences self-esteem, motivation, emotional and physical well-being, and social competence. “It has also been shown that, as a verbal stimulus, parental praise can influence language development in children. For example, children with language delays typically receive significantly less parental praise than do children with adequate language skills in economically disadvantaged families. Therefore, parental praise is associated with psychological and cognitive development in children”.
Practically speaking, we try to maximize the time we have with children in therapy and leave enough time for parents to sign notes, which makes it hard to set aside more time to give parent updates. Given the potential for good that we can instill in our families with habits of positive praise, this is an important consideration. For our clients that would most benefit, we can try making a “Positive Statements List” and update it with our Monthly Summaries, or even send “homework” for the parent as well when it comes to praising their child! As we consider how to harness the power of positive parental praise for our clients, we can smile wide, knowing that we are improving their family relationships and laying a foundation for a stronger child and a stronger family unit.
At one time or another the children that we work with will inevitably veer off course from the direct activity they are doing, to ask a related (or unrelated) question, or to tell us about something they are reminded of. I personally get a little excited when this happens, though I realize that this is probably not the initial reaction of most clinicians. There are some “rabbit trails” that we can use to further engage the student, and reignite their love of learning. Other kinds of “rabbit trails” disengage the child from therapy tasks, and it is more effective to redirect them back to their work.
Determining which kind of rabbit trail the child is leading us down will help determine whether we go along for the ride- vs. redirecting. If the child is asking a relevant or related question, it’s ok to stop and talk about that. I like being near a computer, so I can search for images related to the topic. Sometimes we need to give more background info and the computer is a good tool to use. We have two laptops that are available, and taking them into the therapy office to your PC is ok too.
Sometimes with tangentially related rabbit trails, I take advantage of them as a “compare and contrast” learning opportunity. If the child can explain how the topic is related and how it differs from the information we are using with them, that deepens their understanding. If this is too distracting or taking too much time, it’s also ok to tell the child how their question is similar and different to their topic, and then re-direct back to their work.
Fist Bump for a Job well done in Speech Therapy
For redirections, I often tell kids to put their distraction “in the back of their attention”, and they respond “put this in the front”. A quick reminder to “put it in the back” is sometimes all they need to re-focus. One of our highly distracted students is beginning to remind himself “ok, I’ll put that in the back and my work in the front”!
The Socratic learning process encourages students to discover the right answer or a deeper understanding through us asking the right questions. Using this method is bound to lead us through multiple rabbit trails. When a student is doing a “stinking thinking rabbit trail” we need to stop whatever we are doing and redirect them back to the positive. The socratic method is a powerful tool as students learn to see their “mistakes” as a way to focus more on where they need additional learning. This helps us lessen their emotional response to “failure” and empowers them to become more independent learners.
ck loop”. Children that struggle with communication and academic skills are more likely to get overwhelmed, and this makes it even more of a challenge to stay positive.
